Refocusing can calm us. Maybe Left brains are afraid of us?
Knowing Left Brains are destroying civilization, real panic begins. We have to find a way to REFRAME
Mon. Jan 15, 2024, 6:00 pm
link unherd .. Mcgillchrist
Once you know WHY all our SYSTEMS are collapsing REAL PANIC sets in. We may have had intuition that things are bad .. but once we look at all the scholars who think so .. it gets terrifying. (Isn't to interesting that Left brains (republicans? even DISMISS SCHOLARS!! So someone who has studied something for years does NOT know more than you?? yes .. terrifying!
Maybe if we can UNDERSTAND this weird behaviour we can find empathy for their missing brain wiring. We are missing action wiring .. but too fast thoughtless action always has BAD CONSEQUENCES.
REFRAMING? but NOT with TOXIC POSITIVITY! Is everything DUAL .. both good AND bad??
Sun. Jan. 21, 2024, 11:00 am
This is awesome! (Toxic Positivity!! explains my anger at this NONSENSE!! I am too negative you know. NO!! I am the canary in the coal mine of SELF ABSORBED SENIORS WHO CARE NOTHING .. about the mess they created! "I will die soon let them figure it out." No! you are a selfish toward evil person so we must murder you 😁 )
Re finding this PERFECT ANSWER link above, to my rage at "why are you so NEGATIVE?" .. There is an answer out there for EVERYTHING. If we SHARE and TRADE the GOOD answers, then we GOOD humans can TAKE BACK CONTROL! When the interent was invented .. yes I am THAT old! I thought we could now MANAGE THE WORLD in a UTOPIA .. Why did you not LISTEN TO ME. Had we begun ORGANIZING HUMAN INTELLIGENCE back in the 90's we would now be living in (hard) UTOPIA. Instead we have WORSE chaos and disconnect than in the 50's WITHOUT the "progress" we so VALUE.
HAH!! That is what is WRONG! we value ONLY "progress" not THINKNG, analyzing, and compromising to get the BEST SOLUTION. We just run with what is profitable or gives us more POWER. Fast and easy is our GOD, we WORSHIP CONVENIENCE. A REAL HIMAN .. A GOOD HUMAN'S life is NOT easy! Being kind caring and considerate of past mistakes and UNINTENDED future consequences is VERY HARD. But it creates a DECENT quality of life and basic FAIRNESS for all. We all CONTRIBUTE but we all also RECEVE the basic ability to live without enormous STRESS. Stress is killing the younger generations. But do seniors care? Those boomers are evil and need their senior discounts and perks removed! (Wait! I can only afford to buy everything on Senior 20% off day .. I owe a million for this stupid invention decades in the making! See how hard FAIR is? But THINKNG and compromising is the only way we will SURVIVE. The way we now behave .. I imagine EXTINCT very soon .. I mean ? after a decade of hell and civil WAR.
OK so REFRAME means not wasting our scarce ENERGY, depressed + anxious. Together we help each other
Sun. Jan 21, 2024, 11:30 am
TOXIC POSITIVITY! Thank you so much .. HEALTHLINE (Simone Marie)
This SHALLOW dismissal "why are you so negative?" enraged me BEFORE the pandemic. maybe the one good thing is now so many off us feel the same? Maybe more of us feel we can speak out? can we maybe USE this DUAL idea to reframe everything? It feels like when I CALM DOWN I see value in a bad thing that just happened. Sometimes one bad thing leads to another and another BUT .. without those 3 BAD THINGS the 4th GREAT thing could not have happened!!
WHOA!! that is a new FOCUS for our Life Ledgers! Whoa! Maybe I can better deal with the struggles if my mind says "these negative events will eventually LEAD to a GREAT event .. that would not have HAPPENED without the "investment" of the bad or TOXIC events! OMG! Can you help develop our ACCOUNTING SYSTEM? I never thought of it as even MIND investments .. wait I seriously need to organize today's MANY new ideas better. THIS IS A GREAT ONE THOUGH.
MINDLESS! .. TOXIC positivity DISMISSES and DEMEANS our concerns, but Can we reframe NOT with by using the MAGIC MAGNET from god (link)
EEyih!! The Debt we owe on THEIR pieces of paper (not REAL money) .. what a CON job on us!!
Sat. Jan. 20, 2024, 7:30 pm. .. look at this image .. eeyih .. and I thought my debt is terrible! Ho STUPID are we? I taught bachelor survival 35 years ago, my last awesome class before they REMOVED the BEST AREA of EDUCATION .. Home Economics! .. which this Accounting System is based on (just the human FAMILY instead of nuclear family. back then I showed how the increase in house value was just paid to the bank .. and now moving would just be to a house COSTING more. Of course they had to shut down a course that migh actually EDUCATE .. and make people too smart to be SCAMMED EVERYWHERE! Remember I am sick of not being listend to .. and ready to to laugh as I watch you guys go down on a beach in some SANE country. OR .. I will work 16 hour days 7 day weeks to get this system HAPPENING .. IF .. there is buy in.
seriously?? Check those image numbers again! In TO a house is probably $2 million now since a big nice condo heads to $I million. There used to be gold backing for our paper money, but since 1971 it is just a piece of papaer the country PRINTED. No gold backing any more! So isnt it nice the bank can lend us NOTHING .. and make 25% on my loan. Wouldn't it be nice if we coud sell NOTHING and get tons of payment for it? Anybody who thinks us vs them is a CYNICAL "conspiracy theorist" is HOPEFULLY in kindergarten.
kinesis money .. must research this .. maybe it can be our TRADE paper or a parallel of this. These home owners owe 1 1/4 million paid 75,000 last year and they now own 1,600 more of their home. And HOW can we possibly be this stupid? you still do not believe our Right Hemisphere wiring THINKING brains are GONE???
Wait a minute with my Right hemisphere FAIR brain I have REFUSED to move my enormous USA debt to a cheaper loan. I felt I have already REPAID Capital one and Barclay like 3 times!! When I go bankrupt (if nobody wants to build this BETTER FAIR SYSTEM) They already were evil taking so much interest they were repaid 3x already , so it is more FAIR to leave them in the lurch. BUT new guys simply make my interest as profit .. there IS NO REAL MONEY TRANSFERRED. is this really true. Is everything really THAT bad?
Left brains are the evil power structure. But they are also those who want to just get it DONE NOW!
Mon. Jan 15, 2024, 6:00 pm
maybe we intimidate them? make them fell stupid .. so they bully and attack us?
Maybe our THINKING .. our "..buts" and finding reasons and unexpected consequences just confuse them
Tending to be WARRIORS, while we Right Brains are WORRIERS must be very FRUSTRATING for Left brain action minds. They want to get a solution happening, but we are still contemplating and INDECISIVE. WE Thinkers can definitely be a PAIN.
But having seen the terrible results of decades of THOUGHTLESS action, we are now ANGRY no one listened to us. We are not the ones in power! When you worry about everything it is much harder to gain POWER. A focus on "me/mine, here, now" makes life much easier to get the WIN. Worrying FIRST about the common and greater good consequence .. BEFORE doing anything slows every mission! Focusing only on PROFIT or POWER .. NOW .. is EASY.
Confused WARRIORS lash out .. we slow THINKER (Right brains) are the enemy
you have to TAKE DOWN the enemy. TWISTING and belittling try idea we have is a great way to start. we SHOULD definitely WAKE UP to the collapse we face ..but the steal WOKE .. making it no longer usable. that is MEAN toward evil!
copied from ? another web page .. re find it and copy my heading
Mon. Jan 15, 2024, 5:30 pm Think about that heading ... best yet! Good ideas are dismissed! Our Right brain INTELLECTUAL WANDERINGS confuse Left brains, who just want to "get 'er done."! So feeling out of control, they FEEL we are the enemy and they become WARRIORS.
1954!!!!! from "ANTI- INTELLECTUALISM is a VIRUS"!! April 2018
"Much earlier, Harry S. Broudy a prominent philosopher of education wrote an article called ‘An Analysis of anti-intellectualism’ published in Educational Theory.2 In 1954, he wrote: ‘Today the heresy is Communism, actual or suspected; tomorrow it may be Socialism or Economic Royalism; too few wives [Ed. really!] or too many; too many gods or too few. Of this alone we can be sure: so long as pot shots at the intellectual pay political dividends, we shall lack neither suitable heresies nor zealous accus- ers.’ He goes on to argue: ‘Intellectualism is not a theory or a philosophy in itself; it is rather a degree of emphasis placed on the powers of the human intellect to achieve truth and happiness’ (p. 187) Dewey"
Eeeyih .. no wonder since 9 yrs old, I have always wondered why is everything STUPID and does not work? And why are people MEAN? Hah! Were we already stupid in 1954?? damn it! that destroys my SUGAR theory! But seriously sugar 100% fried our brain wiring along with all our other inventions. screens and the STRESS and toxins (EMF etc) they create. I guess we are now just even STUPIDER?
Come on .. how often have YOU thought "Damn I could do a better job in ..., and I know NOTHING." We have common sense, LOGIC and REASON to use in our SOLUTIONS. We think about CAUSES (learn from the past), and CONSEQUENCES (contemplate FUTURE effects), BEFORE we jump in just to make money or find GLORY. We just want things to IMPROVE life for everybody! I think this is a RIGHT brain's focus .. to understand, so we can FIX it. You can NOT fix antything if you do not UNDERSTAND it!
A Problem is an onion .. how can you know what is going on, by grabbing only the skin? You have to dig down through the LAYERS of the onion (problem), to get to the HEART and a REAL SOLUTION. WE only grab onion skins, the outer shells so our SILO solutions have no depth and are JUST BANDAIDS! Don't be so irresponsible and LAZY .. you silly Left brains. I know .. you have long ago left the building (web site)😪 There will have to be civil WAR.
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Tues. Jan 15, 2024, 10:00 am
"Living a happy life is not a luxury .. but a necessity for our overall well-being."
"happy", today? If you are aware , paying attention? what a joke "happy" is! But her quote is TRUE. We can not stay well if we are living in fear of the future and all the stresses of today, constantly! we absolutely MUST learn to dissociate from NOW. Jerk Left brains do it ALL DAY! How do they get to have a happy life and they are not even GOOD HUMANS?? I know .. life makes no sense! I figure when god gave us the tool of the magic magnet (you get what you EXPECT) he did not EXPECT there to be so many self absorbed narcissistic people. Yes you just be positive people focus onlly on me/ mine here, now which has destroyed well being for MOST of us. No thought tomorrow only today's profit to power can only DESTROY everything. we are supposed to be the HIGHER consciousness .. you know thinking a little deeper.
We MUST step OUT of our hell .. BELIEVE we CAN still make change for the better. If we stick together we can encourage each other, lift each other when it looks too black. Check the link and spend some time on the 5 needs .. create relationships, find your area of joy ("passion"), set goals to feel accomplishment, care for SELF TOO, in balance, and embrace learning and growth. We can NOT continue in the despair of loss and hopelessness! we can accomplish nothing when feeling down. *add Magic Magnet and link here
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We can fix it! ACCEPT our Doom, but CHANGE focus to here/now
How do we stay hopeful in a sea of cancerous contagious TOXINS to Human Health? OUR FINAL Virus!
Sat. Dec. 2, 2023, 4:00 pm.
Going to watch Rick Hansen, 50 years ago! (. ) His ability to continue hopeful to live a full life is amazing. But sorry Rick is it actually harder for us NOT disabled TODAY? We are fine but our entire WORLD is collapsing around us. Not one of the systems that SHOULD work toward human HEALTH functions properly. Is seeing this worse than unable to walk but living in a SANE, still decent world?
YES! Always WONDERED would I rather be disabled with a loving family and friends OR be in good health BUT with NO ONE? It is certainly an easier life with connection and support.That is a POT of GOLD some of us have never had. Nothing against Rick and his amazing accomplishments, but I am just realizing how dire our situation really is. Without hope, trust and security .. life is pretty DISABLING just with THINKING!
wow .. this is horrible. So even MORE than in a NORMAL world, we thinkers must STICK TOGETHER and help lift each other UP. Hella hard job today .. but really IF we disci[pline ourselves to sacrifice the accepted corporate govt system .. there are MORE of us and we have a few minutes to make change. A I will be here to eat us in 3 minutes. (Time flies today! 🤯 )
rick's ME ledger got STOLEN! But he still had the we/ us ledgers intact. Our ME ledger is constantly in trauma, we have no time to BUILD the WE ledger of REAL community and our US earth Ledger is worse than empty, the constant withdrawals with disrespect leave it in toxic debt and NEGATIVES.
Still! Hard to follow the "ACCEPT it!"rule. It is hard to not DESPAIR again and again at what we see
Wed. Dec 27, 2023, 8:00 pm.
After all this time, too many "Proof of COLLAPSE" shocks can throw me into debilitating despair.
- Healthcare is being privatized .. 25% decrease in positive Health / surgery results with capitalist hospitals and health groups.
- Times Square protests worrying New Year celebration?? Damn it .. enough .. one thing we were looking forward to!! a new year .. maybe better? THAT is NOT were you protest. PURE SELFISH. You could give out a biz card with my website GOOD Humans only. club to people who seem amenable 😤 .. but NO screaming or big signs HARMING OTHERS EFFORT TO FIND JOY!! link 3 life Ledgers accounting. People are so incredibly SELF ABSORBED. Yes we should take responsibility but QUIETLY.
- Hong Kong Parasite guy .. suicide?? seems he was wrongly being accused of stuff!
- So many support TRUMP .. if half do .. that half are all Left brain and will listen to NO REASON or common sense. They simply demonize. All politicians do not care about us .. so you pick the one a LITTLE bit safer. At least Joe speaks with some class .. how have we fallen so low to have the possible Leader of the "free" world speak as Trump does?? That observation is enough to create despair for a MONTH.
- Netanyahu is pure evil (you do not kill 20,000 innocents bec they are in the way of your "enemy" who are just sick of being bullied and rebelling .. and my beloved USA supports him against every other countries protests of WAR CRIMES.
- The BIBLE is evil!! The first media!! .. with the FIRST Propoganda that twists our mind and keeps us in line, controlled and behaving. This is a horrifying realization that was ALWAYS my INTUITION. (more later) evil!! Mother jones .. I need to ? subscribe .. all these groups need SUPPORT for speaking out hopefully with TRUTH "Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy all that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys." sorry, I have not read/ pondered all carefully .. too shocked what he picks to use from all the STORIES in the bible.
So many negative destructive pieces of news .. hah!! THAT"S WHY THOSE LAZY LEFT BRAINS SAY "why are you wasting time watching the news?? .. it's just Propoganda!" True, but it lets you get a feel for the big picture! Left brains are Myopic and care nothing for big picture. "me/ mine, here, now" is all that matters! How easy a life! "you can't do anything about it .. just make sure YOU act properly" We right brains do NOT always act properly BUT, AT LEAST we are always wondering and analyzing what can be done better, to be FAIR and harm no one.
We must quit wasting time and energy being shocked at human's shallow, selfishness .. or stupidity?
ps .. ok now I will retake my own advice below 😥.. previously written advice, early Dec.
Stop being shocked. It is true .. Humans have truly lost their INTELLIGENCE and common sense. There is no logic or reason in our actions. This is because Left Brain ACTION people are in charge. They do not waste time THINKING things through BEFORE action. The bandaid silos that result are now all colappsing. Nothing works because the goal is THEIR profit and power. The goal is not quality of life for WE THE PEOPLE! So we must accept we have "been had". While we thought "daddy" the gov't was "looking after us" he was actually stealing everything. We live in a "win/ lose society" where our LOSS is their gain. This is why we will create a gated community where we live by 3 Life Ledgers not just one (me and mine, here and now). We will create our OWN "Win Win! society" where we share and trade our skills and HUMAN INTELLIGENCE. With each of us caring for more than just SELF, we can truly create a far better quality of life.
Meantime, if we ACCEPT we have truly created dystopia .. NO MORE PROOF IS NEEDED, then we will waste less energy and time BITTER and despairing. When I was a little kid I had a lot of loss and felt the world did not make sense. Nothing seemed to work and why would people want to be evil? Maybe I wasted so much time this last decade looking for proof that I really was right all along .. because I did no WANT to be right!
We messed up. We were complacent (sheep) so we are complicit in this collapse. When we prove there is a BETTER WAY, others can join us and replicate our WIN/ WIN SYSTEM. Right plus Balanced BRAINS TOGETHER with the same GOAL .. "win/ win" for ALL of us, will create Total HUMAN HEALTH, quality of life for all in our community. (NO you do not need to fear your silly idea of socialism. Which is WRONG, I think. To me socialism is more FAIR, but I have not studied it. I have built a new 3 Life Ledger ACCOUNTING system of ALL our Human Resources .. NOT just $$!(from me alone to consideration for WE and US) . We each contribute and we each do not stave or freeze.) You can have a mansion and jet etc .. just be FAIR to your workers, FAIR to others and to earth. And then be philanthropic on top .. because you are a HUMAN .. not an EVIL greedy ZOMBIE oblivious to other's STRUGGLE.
After we ACCEPT that terror at every new idiocy helps nothing, STOP! Just breathe .. BREATHE deeply
Fri. Dec. 01, 2023. 4:00 pm.
Maybe this is so great because it is something we will ALWAYS have control over! We have lost control over most of our lives, but our breathing we can chose to slow and deepen, actually use it to our health benefit. I think it can somehow reduce a stressed body area .. you know as you breathe loosen your shoulders and neck and jaw .. those places we get STRESS PROBLEMS. Of course our body is affected by our mind. Do people seriously now just KNOW that? I do not need and expert to teach me. If I have a THINKNKNG BRAIN I know my shoulders or stomach etc TENSE when a situation is creates fear or even anxiety. Pay ATTENTION people. We are too oblivious to IMPORTANT THINGS and too knowledgeable about tie tok and 7000 Shows available on subscription.
I just lost my ability to go to the last Stones concert ever. I refuse to fight with the stupid ticket master who has an email that is not accepting the code I need. Yes I am impatient, but RIGHTFULLY sick of being CONTROLLED by apple and all its APPS. If I did not want to take my phone I probably not be allowed into concert even though paid! "where is your QR code, old lady?" Screw you! Where is your job when all this STUPIDITY destroys it! Maybe we should use digital to make life better, not stupid complicated for what? Canyou seriously say those apps improve your quality of life? NO! Just another place for us to be overwhelmed and disorganized!! I used to be disorganized in my home and at my desk. NOW my computer is a mess .. plus my phone .. PLUS MY 2 EXPENSIVE CLOUDS I am RANSOMED FOR. Beware .. (add how layer. like a storage locker YOU have to empty or PAY UP!)
SEE! I can rant and have a heart attack, even get sore hands as I frantically type this .. or say I DON'T CARE!!!! Keep your Stones. If possible I will go to Phila and stand outside and just feel the energy if nothing can be heard. double screw you Ticket master. Besides the last concert was like 500$ for nothing seats so I guess I know this would probably not be .. I just think it would be fair to put APPROXIMATE prices on the site NOT ransoming my identity. I think probably others if. AWARE and paying attention feel so OUT OF CONTROL of our OWN LIFE. As I write this I realize why I am so jealous of zombies or those who're shallow and selfish focusing ONLY on "me/ mine here now". Shallow oblivious people will not even NOTICE we have lost all control over our personal life. "jobs" are contracts and unfair. Truths are lies .. also ABOUT us! Very weird world we live in with NO quality of life whatsoever. But oblivious people think MORE, faster and "easier" is what life is about. So I guess we Right brain THINKERS should get a little oblivious. We chose the time and place that is good for OUR well being. We STOP worrying just take the hamster wheel of our mind OUT OF GEAR so it stops! Visualize you shutting down that monster mind of ours. Take a break like those lazy Left brains that just act without the TROUBLE of thinking first.
Thinkers usually forget to care for their OWN personal ME Life Ledger. We are always worried about We and Us and forget to care for ME. So let's make a pact to several times daily take a Left brain ME break! Are all those self care obsessed Left brain, selfish and shallow. I always hated the just BREATHE response. Sure no job, being evicted, just breathe and do some yoga. How ridiculous! But again in trying to live a life of BALANCE, in normal times gone by these things did definitely help. It is not the centuries ago yoga masters FAULT that we destroyed the HEALTH of humanity. THEIR WORK is still amazing. It just seems stupid amidst our lives of no security truth and terrible stress. So we must not throw out something useful because we live in horrid times. STOP thinking .. just BREATHE deeply and take in a feeling of BEING IN CONTROL.
With the "WORRY WHEEL" (hamster-ing) stopped, think of beautiful things we still have, trees, water,
flowers the sky. Who knows these could be gone soon. APPRECIATE all we still have before it disappears.
55 years ago things were BAD in America! Elvis' song, "If I can DREAM" was wise THEN .. is again NOW
Thurs. Dec. 21, 2023, 9:30 pm.
1968 was a terrible year .. MLK's death and Robert Kennedy's assassination etc etc. So Elvis wanted to end his comeback concert acknowledging the turmoil.
Lyrics
"There must be lights burning brighter somewhere
Got to be birds flying higher in a sky more blue
If I can dream of a better land
Where all my brothers walk hand in hand
Tell me why, oh why, oh why can't my dream come true
Oh whyThere must be peace and understanding sometime
Strong winds of promise that will blow away the doubt and fear
If I can dream of a warmer sun
Where hope keeps shining on everyone
Tell me why, oh why, oh why won't that sun appearWe're lost in a cloud
With too much rain
We're trapped in a world
That's troubled with pain
But as long as a man
Has the strength to dream
He can redeem his soul and flyDeep in my heart there's a trembling question
Still I am sure that the answer, answer's gonna come somehow
Out there in the dark, there's a beckoning candle, yeah
And while I can think, while I can talk
While I can stand, while I can walk
While I can dream
Oh, please let my dream
Come true
Right now
Let it come true right now
Oh yeah"
Source: LyricFindSongwriters: Walter Earl BrownIf I Can Dream lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
added .. Mon. Jan 14, 2024, 7:30 pm.
But sadly we have had 50 years to get ever faster WORSE. Quality of life has declined to nothing but STRESS today. So very Strange .. my first conference after graduating Teacher's college, in the early 70's, was focused on "whatever will we do with all this .. NEW FOUND LEISURE TIME?" How will we keep ourselves from horrible BOREDOM, I mean we have automatic LAUNDRY and a Microwave etc etc. We will have nothing to do to keep family and life orderly.
What happened?? oh .. I know .. we stupid women's libbers decided it was more VALUABLE, had more RESPECT to be working OUTSIDE the home. Rather than the VERY IMPORTANT career of RUNNING A FAMILY WELL we thought we were being controlled, kept from being a big shot! we were big shots raising well mannered HUMANS! So now we have 2 jobs, nobody parenting and chaos .. because everyone is overloaded and ovewhelmed!
All DISAPPEARS, so much LOSS finally makes us QUIT CARING. A bad thing, but needed, just to survive.
I finally think I have finally reached a point of not caring. So much change and loss eventually becomes insurmountable. If we care about NOTHING we can not lose it! Those who have family friends and secure income have no clue what I speak of. Hopefully YOUNG PEOPLE have no clue. When you are old your favourite stores programs people even places are GONE. When you are old everything is GONE .. a loss. It is quite the learning to SWITCH opposite and say .. "how lucky I was to have .. ". I am trying to now live "here today, gone tomorrow, so why even cry about it .. it is the way in a world of constant senseless change" Our change is SENSELESS because humans NEED stability. We need to feel secure, like we can count on some routine and expectation of normal times. Constant upheaval in people we deal with, our routine, where we go, who we deal with is NOT good for our emotional Health!
I lost a MOST important set of photos thanks to Apple Store's lack of caring. (my fault for not being up with my back ups and all .. but had they said "Let's wait a minute til you think about what you will lose .. would probably NOT have gone ahead and wiped phone. At that point I was so disappointed I thought why care .. just quit caring, expect nothing to remain that you care about. But a year later I was still BITTER. I now understand why starving people throw their food down at the food saints place. I thought they were so MEAN. This church helps them try to keep them from starving or freezing and they just LITTER?? What the hell? Those people have probably faced so much loss and injustice they just QUIT CARING.
Now I have been going to a great cafe every Wed. where I had made a great connection to discuss these wonderful things in our new SYSTEM for health. Girl is leaving and we have so many short connections today it is hard to keep up be text. I really hope this time I can stick with "HERE TODAY .. GONE TOMORROW ..BUT
REFRAME Life as "Here today, Gone tomorrow" but to keep us HEALTHY, think, "How lucky I was to .."
How lucky I was to experience ... even thought it is a LOSS, stop bOTHERING to grieve .. just move on like a Left brain would. "Here today, gone tomorrow .. so what?"
edit .. give THIS more PROMINENCE!! REFRAME our Life, be happy you saw the best, which is now gone. as a Boomer I experienced all the BEST change and movements!! but I also must take the RESPONSIBILITY for causing collapse! I must feel the GUILT of "COMPLACENT to society's problems = COMPLICIT!!" Yet drowning in the DESPAIR of LOSS and the energy drain of guilt will NOT help youth. Come on old people let's try to FIX IT!! Put the guilt energy to work POSITIVELY.
After (Reframing?) .. find things that raise your spirits, good people, funny things, interesting th
Sat. Dec 2, 2023, 3:00 pm.
Not fair to focus on old people guilt .. but we didi have so much we SAW that was good and LOST. You never even got a chance to SEE the good. Your life has been worry, stress and lack of security or calm. Maybe we can see it as you missed the "American dream? .. BUT .. you have the OPPORTUNITY to REDO the Founding Fathers good intentions. I swear they are turning in their graves. I bet Ben Franklin and ?Jon Adams truly wanted a good country .. a NEW way to live that worked BETTER.
What always happens though is every good idea and invention is POLLUTED by Left evil brains! Selfish shallow people heading to greed can only create BAD dystopia. Yes, I suggest that Left brain only wanting power and profit, take ALL Right brain creativity and vision and turn it to HELL! The internet COULD have created UTOPIA had they LISTENED TO ME. No, of course not who listens to visionary NOBODY's? First we have to pretty much collapse humans with greedy STUPID internet use. Stupid as in life itself instead of a TOOL to IMPROVE our quality of LIFE!
If you listen NOW you can use my decades OBSESSED and investing to connect OTHER"S human INTELLIGENCE and come up with a way to do it BETTER. BUT .. EVIL Left brains will have to be REMOVED so they can not MUTILATE our good invention. Sorry I know you guys are Riht brain THINK DISABLED but it will be a matter of life and death. and I'm sure god sends greedy people to hell .. so get off the planet or die BAD MEAN zombies.
To raise your spirits look for things like this
- recreating Mona Lisa, Picasso, the Scream etc FOR BLIND PEOPLE!! how awesome!
- Jan. 15, 2024, 9:30 am such a cool ad! At least we can LAUGH at ourself! birds "flying"
- CBS .. Steve Hartman Sun Jan 14, 2024. for MLK day .. Habitat gives 98 year old woman back the land stolen with racist house burning 90 plus years before .. link. She say god will have to take her kicking and screaming if before Habitat has her house built.😂
For old people sad, seeing all of value is gone, or young people WISE enough to KNOW constant CHANGE
.. young people wise enough to know CONSTANT change can actually KILL us, with stress and the "De-value" of everything. This hotel must have been amazing Sounds so cool and even cars were cooler in the 60's. So sad when the guy finished restoring it .. it BURNED. TVO makes it sound it survived so I wanted to visit and am saddened that relieving that time, is GONE. Developers are so SHALLOW and selfish. Sure you get more profit, but STEAL the soul of buildings and towns or neighbourhoods! And that sole focus on only PROFIT has STOLEN our souls! (Tues. Dec 5, 2023, 10:00 am.)
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with so much wrong with our world how do we survive old fashioned BULLIES .. or Left brains
tues, dec 5Interesting when family member complain about bully bosses, yet they THEMSEVES ARE BULLIES. 🤔 Do we bully people yet not recognize when we are doing it? I guess the "NO EMPATHY" of Left brains leaves them IN THE DARK .. BLIND to much in life!! Or .. do we each bully in different ways? Left brains cut us off not listening and devaluing our deep thinkng. we feel bullied. MEANTIME, they feel bullied by our complicated ideas. They feel we are confusing them and trying to show how great we are. Maybe we just do not UNDERSTAND each other. I had another "last disappointment" from family, but today I just IGNORED it .. like they were of no interest or concern to me. The words they said were devastating demeaning and disrespectful .. no love whatsoever. But I survived .. this is after 20 years plus of trying to just QUIT the family. I really do not think they. are evil .. but their words sure feel that way. I think just left brain THOUGHTLESS .. disabled person. But then I am disabled from quick action. And today to survive we must just BE quick action!!
To change focus.. FUN? Appreciating?Just "fo(r)ged aboud it"
We need to LEARN how to turn on OBLIVION likeLeft brains LIVE LIFE .. so much easier than THINKING.
OMG!! I should be saying "THINKNG OF OTHERS!!" Left brains certainly THINK ..but it is ACTION thinkng that will get THEM what THEY want.
"I am having fun with my artisan 15$ cocktail, who cares about the homeless people outside!" is so much an easier way to live. As an empathetic THOUGHTFUL PERSON (a GOOD HUMAN) seeing so much distress and injustice constantly .. we HAVE TO TAKE A BREAK .. OFTEN .. just to survive. (Once I get more help we will add a way for YOU to add to this section, to share YOUR great Human Intelligence.)
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Why does this song plunge me into despair?
Sat. Jan. 20, 2024, 5:30 pm. lyrics .. video ..
We have to grab ourselves like my sister said, when she feels herself PLUNGING into a dark hole .. she grabs the table leg so she can not fall down that hole. For some reason, on a Farm where the eating table was front and centre that vivid picture stayed in my head. If we can recognize the beginning of the PLUNGE .. we must save ourselves, grab whatever makes us feel some control and STAY out of that deep hole. I came to this write and feel fine .. but listening to that song was sooo sad. Conjures up I am old .. and those 60's were so cool! I missed much of it as a loner, on the farm and struggling at university. I will forever be heartbroken I missed WOODSTOCK. (HEY! I wanted to be a ROCK STAR .. or at least live singing in a band.)
I think the song conjures up INJUSTICE, judgement of stupid people, but especially intuition of the young girl "he's not bad ... he's sad!" Stupid people JUDGE as BAD .. instead of recognizing a sad life can make us LASH OUT. I guess it makes me sad ..
- shallow people vs an intuitive, empathetic, thoughtful young girl .. therefore facing a hard life.
- I am Sad at the loss of those still GOOD times though we did have problems to solve. There was a middle class and a dream working hard could produce it. It died with women's lib!! hah! (link) I gave up everything and we rented part of our house in order to take a summer vacation. With 2 good jobs? Never going out or buying clothes? That was NOT the American dream even THEN, 1970.
- Depressed it feels I did NOT use my life well .. accomplishing little
If we could ANALYZE that moment when we start to fall deep into despair, maybe with understanding we could STOP it more quickly and feel some control over our life? If we are in the process of EXTINCTING ourself we should STOP wasting ANY FORM OF OUR ENERGY, and just enjoy as MUCH as we can. If nothing else the UNFAIRNESS of SHALLOW SELFISH enjoyig a great life while we worry and wonder about better solutions for problems we see. They do nothing but think me/mine here now and live happy! Let's not let them STEAL anymore of our life. Together in our GATED community we can lift each other's spirits and enjoy!
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